Clare Crawley and daughter Rowen.Photo:Jon Kopaloff/Getty, Clare Crawley/Instagram
Jon Kopaloff/Getty, Clare Crawley/Instagram
“I wanted every step of this process to bring little Rowen into this world very thought out and very planned,” says Crawley. “We wanted our surrogate to be a part of her life forever, to know her story. This is a part of her story and a part of how she got brought into this world. She’s like family to us.”
The new mom — whose daughter joins Dawkins’ two daughters, ages 8 and 11, from a previous relationship — says her surrogate, who was based in Idaho, was a “pivotal point and such a huge part of how [Rowen] came into this world.”
“I want Rowen to know every moment of it,” she adds.
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Crawley, whotied the knotwith Dawkins last February, has been very open about her surrogacy journey as a way to help others and “encourage people to look at it as an option if they’re struggling.”
As she settles into her first month of motherhood, Crawley says becoming a mom has been “heavenly.”
“It’s everything I’ve ever expected and 10 times better,” she adds. “Every moment truly is heaven to me. Even the hard parts.”
While being a bonus mom to Dawkins' two daughters is a “great honor,” Crawley says having a daughter of her own was “always my dream.”
“I would’ve been happy if my destiny was just to be a bonus mom. I think that would’ve been amazing. I would’ve had two wonderful bonus girls, but the cake topper is being able to be called mom. That is something super special.”
The new mom says Dawkins' girls have also been very involved with Rowen’s journey and had “hand a hand in everything,” including helping to choose her name.
“They are over the moon to have a little sister,” she says. “We’re so proud of this story and we’re proud of how Rowen came into this world and every piece and every part that it took to bring her into this world. She was so wanted and so loved and took a lot to bring her here, so we always talk about it.”
source: people.com