Da Brat and Wife Judy on Resuming Sex Life Days After Childbirth: 'We Don't Have Those Problems' (Exclusive)

Mar. 15, 2025

Da Brat and Wife Judy.Photo: Prince Williams/Wireimage

New momsDa Bratand wifeJesseca “Judy” Harris-Dupartaren’t lacking in the romance department.

“We had the idea of doing something that was especially for him,” Da Brat says of turning the cameras back on, “We didn’t want to miss anything and we wanted to make sure we have something for him to look at when he grows up.”

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Still, the couple was particular about preserving some sense of privacy, cutting back on the usual crew that shoots their reality show. “We wanted a very limited amount of people in our home,” says Harris-Dupart of their estate in Alpharetta, Georgia. “And it had to be people we were comfortable with. You might catch [Da Brat] actually breastfeeding on camera.”

When it comes to getting back to their romantic relationship postpartum, the couple admits it took them no time at all. “We don’t have to do the ‘back up, I’m not there yet,’ when it comes to postpartum sex,” says Da Brat, who carried their child. While doctors usually recommend new moms wait weeks to resume sexual activity, the rapper says, “It was long enough after a couple days.”

Also, explains Harris-Dupart, whose egg was used along with sperm from an anonymous donor, “We didn’t deliver vaginally, so there’s that. And I also think we know each other enough to understand [sexual] invitations.”

Da Brat agrees. When it comes to being on the same page romantically, “We never have those problems,” she says. “I just love her so much.”

The couple puts their love and a lot more on display in the new special. “We discuss, are we doing this again and having another one and if so who’s going to carry,” teases Da Brat. They also get into the great nanny debate, and how to deal with jealousy or “people being interested in my wife,” says the star.

Da Brat and wife Judy.Paras Griffin/WireImage

Most importantly, she adds, “We hope that people understand that they shouldn’t give up if they want to have children. Do your research, don’t just believe what someone says. I was 48. And babies are special. They’re more special than I could ever imagine.”

source: people.com