Jude Law Talks 'Healthy' Marriage with Psychologist Wife Phillipa Coan: 'We Talk a Lot About How We Feel'

Mar. 15, 2025

Philipa Coan and Jude Law at New Jersey Devils v New York Rangers, NHL ice hockey match, Madison Square Garden, New York, USA on Dec. 18, 2016.Photo:Jd Images/Shutterstock

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Jude Lawis getting real about life with his wife.

In a new interview withGQ, published Tuesday, Nov. 12, the actor, 51, spoke about how he and his wife Phillipa Coan have healthy communication in their marriage.

“Also, Phil’s a psychologist,” he continued. “So we enjoy a very healthy relationship where we talk a lot about how we feel, our relationships with friends, relationships with our families, and she has a wonderful perspective on all of that. I think one should, in middle age, start to reflect.”

He added, “What are the patterns I’ve created? What are the relationships I have? Why do I have them like that? How do I feel about them?”

Jude Law and Philipa Coan.Karwai Tang/WireImage

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Law and Coach have beenmarried since 2019after meeting through a mutual friend.

The husband and wife hada surprise weddingon April 30, 2019 at The Old Marylebone Town Hall in London.

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Coan sported a short off-white ruffled dress, while Law wore a navy corduroy suit and jacket.

Jude Law’s GQ Men of the Year 2024 cover.Paola Kudacki/GQ

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The pair were first linked in 2015 when they were seen at the Hay Festival, an annual literature, science and culture event in Wales.

Law is also father to son Rafferty, 28, daughter Iris, 24, and son Rudy, 22, with ex-wife Sadie Frost; daughter Sophia, 15, with ex Samantha Burke and daughter Ada, 9, with ex Catherine Harding.

He was also previously engaged toSienna Millerfrom 2004 to 2006.

source: people.com