Meghan Markle Says She Thought Harry Was 'Joking' About Curtsying to the Queen in Netflix Series

Mar. 15, 2025

The pressure was on whenMeghan MarklemetQueen Elizabeth!

The Duchess of Sussex, 41, opened up about what it was like to meet the Queen for the first time inHarry & Meghan, now streaming on Netflix. In the second episode, the California couple shared more about their love story, opening up about the early days of their transatlantic courtship and Meghan’s impromptu meeting with the Queen.

“My grandmother was the first senior member of the family that Meghan met. She had no idea what it all consisted of. So it was a bit of a shock to the system for her,” Harry, 38, said in a sit-down interview segment.

“It’s surreal. It wasn’t like some big moment of like, ‘Now you’re going to meet my grandmother,” Meghan recalled. “I didn’t know I was going to meet her until moments before. We were in the car, and we were going to Royal Lodge for lunch. And he’s like, ‘Oh my grandmother’s here, she’s gonna be there after church,’ " she continued, referencing the royal residence wherePrince AndrewandSarah Fergusonlive.

Meghan Markle and Queen Elizabeth.Karwai Tang/WireImage

“And I remember we were in the car and we were driving up and he’s like ‘You know how to curtsy right?’ And I just thought it was a joke,” Meghan deadpanned.

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“How do you explain that to people? How do you explain that you bow to your grandmother and that you would need to curtsy? Especially to an American. That’s weird,” Harry said.

On what the gesture meant, his wife continued, “Now, I’m starting to realize this is a big deal. I mean, Americans will understand this,” she said, adding in a theatrical voice, “we have Medieval Times, dinner and tournament. It was like that. I curtsied as though,” she continued, performing an exaggerated bow from the couch where she sat.

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“Pleasure to meet you, your Majesty,” she giggled, asPrince Harrylooked on.

Adding that the momentous meeting was “so intense,” the Duchess of Sussex saidPrincess Eugenie,Jack Brooksbankand Fergie insisted she “did great” after the Queen left, admitting that she now realizes she “didn’t know what I was doing.”

“I remember my family first meeting her and being incredibly impressed. Some of them didn’t quite know what to do with themselves,” he laughed. “I think they were surprised. Maybe surprised that a ginger could land such a beautiful woman and such an intelligent woman.”

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“But the fact that I was dating an American actress was probably what clouded their judgment more than anything else at the beginning. ‘Oh she’s an American actress — this won’t last,’ " he added.

Meghan agreed that as their romance blossomed, “the actress thing was the biggest problem, funny enough,” when it came to what Harry’s family thought of her.

“There is a big idea of what that looks like, from the U.K. standpoint. Hollywood. It was just very easy for them to typecast that.”

Volume one ofHarry & Meghanis now streaming on Netflix. Volume two premieres next Thursday, Dec. 15.

source: people.com