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Nick Cannonis opening up about the months he andAlyssa Scottspent between learning ofson Zen’s cancer diagnosis and his death.
In an episode of Paramount+‘sThe Checkup with Dr. David Agus, theMasked Singerhost, 42,opened up about how they came to learnthat their infant son had brain cancer.
“Beinga father of multiple kids, it’s always thebiggest guilt on meis that I don’t get to spend enough time with all my children, one ‘cause I’m constantly working and two because I’m just spread thin.”
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“They did a lot of tests. They didn’t let him leave the hospital,” he recalled. “And so you could imagine you think you’re taking your son in to get a checkup for —at the worst, I was thinking asthma, you know? And to know that he gets diagnosed with brain cancer, that was a shock.”
He asked doctors to “be upfront” with him so that he could prepare himself and protect Scott from what might happen next, noting doctors “kind of laid it out for me.”
Zen was diagnosed with high-grade glioma, a rare and aggressive form of brain cancer. Cannon and Scott were presented with the option of chemotherapy as a course of treatment.
“When we first went to the hospital, just to decrease his head from rapidly continuing to grow, there were a couple of procedures we were all for,” he said, explaining they used a shunt to drain fluid from Zen’s brain.
“That, to me, made logical sense. There was less pain on him and the procedure was quick. It was all aboutquality of life,” he noted.
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“From that point, they pretty much told me that best case scenario, your son could live to 3 or 4 years old. So instantly when I heard that, I thought quality of life. I wanted him tohave the best existence he could have.”
When it came to chemo, Cannon asked if that would extend Zen’s life or lessen his suffering, to which they told him, “not really,” because of the placement of the tumor.
“Seeing your son hooked up to all of those machines — and he had to go for a shunt two or three times, and that was heartbreaking every time — even in that short amount of time, I couldn’t imagine him having to go through chemo.”
Cannon experienced a form of chemo himself astreatment for his lupusand “knew what that did to me.”
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“I knew how as a full grown man, that process … My hair was falling out,” he said. “I wouldn’t even call it pain; it just sucked everything out of you. I couldn’t imagine that on a newborn and what that would do.”
In their concerns for Zen’s quality of life, the treatment option would have also required him to “live in the hospital.”
“He would have never gone home,” Cannon said, explaining he and Scott ultimately “went to the space of ‘we want to enjoy him and we want him to enjoy [us].'”
Thelast days were “tough"for the father, who credited Scott for “her strength, her resilience.”
“I definitelycouldn’t have did it without her. The fact that she was the one, from every aspect she handled it,” he acknowledged. “We had some beautiful moments. We had the opportunity, weknew the transition was coming. It happened a lot faster than we thought, but even that last weekend I knew, ‘this is probably going to be the last weekend.'”
Cannon continued, “Luckilywe did everythingfrom the sunrise,going to the beach, the sunset, said some beautiful prayers as a family, and really came together as a family in a very beautiful way. I’m grateful for that, but it was definitely tough.To see your child there, suffering at a point and watching things shut down, it was pretty intense.”
source: people.com