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People / Brian Kopinski
We get it: Decision fatigue is a real thing — especially when it comes to putting together a wedding registry or buying wedding gifts.
Take it from us, though. There’s nothing fun about coming home to a pile of wedding gifts only to realize you truly don’t have a need for that pricey Chinaware, or that the half a dozen bulky appliances you registered for are more a source of clutter than dinner inspiration.
Spending a little extra time being intentional with what items you buy, future bride or not, can save you the hassle of cumbersome returnsandhelp prevent shopper’s remorse later on.
Whether you are kickstarting life with your new spouse or just wanting to invest in some home and kitchen staples, PEOPLE spoke to several brides to find out what items they wish they put on their registry.
Frontgate
$30 at Frontgate
If you are saving up funds for a lavish vacation, you can stock up on these extra plush resort-quality bath towels to hold you over in the meantime. A favorite of former brideAlida Nugentof Brooklyn, New York (as well asa PEOPLE Tested winner), it comes in 26 shades (including dark burgundy and neutrals galore) and definitely sparks that five-star feel. “If you know, you know,” says Nugent. “These are the best towels in the game.”
Etsy
$35 at Etsy
West Elm
$28 at West Elm
Fancy kitchen appliances are great and all, but if you plan on your home being a hub for entertainment, serveware is just as important. “I wish we added more serveware and pieces we would use for entertaining and hosting,” says Reals.
Made out of lightweight melamine and boasting a modern, semi-matte finish, Kaloh offers a salad bowl, chip and dip bowl, and a tray for DIY cheese boards. Even better: These pieces are suitable for outdoor use — you’ll definitely want to whip them out for barbecues.
OXO
$65$60 at Amazon$66$60 at Bed Bath & Beyond$65 at Oxo
Anthropologie
$18 at Anthropologie
You’ve got your dinnerware set down pat, but we think spicing things up with a whimsical dessert plate is always a good idea for adding that “wow” factor to your meals.
This design from Anthropologie is so charming you’ll be excited to pull them out come dessert time, whether you’re hosting a formal party or cozying up with your spouse on the couch. “New dessert plates are definitely something I wouldn’t buy myself and I think they’re so special,” says Reals.
Caraway
$1,090 at Carawayhome.com
Designed with a nonstick, nontoxic ceramic coating that heats food evenly, the 16-piece set has everything you need to roast, fry, and bake like a world-class chef. It also works on both gas and electric stovetops (so it’ll make things easy if you plan on switching homes later on) and looks good while doing it (choose from eight gorgeous shades).
Zola
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For the couple who sees more value in jetsetting than a toaster, asking for an airline gift card is a no-brainer. Just ask Jessica Gautier of Clarksville, Tennessee, who has been married for 15 years but still wishes she registered for a honeymoon cash fund.
“We had a very small honeymoon and kept saying we will go on a bigger honeymoon later,” she says. “Well, two kids and many moons later we still need to take that tropical beach honeymoon vacation.”
Revolve
$28 at Dusendusen.com$28 at Revolve$28 at Shopbop.com
“I feel like you’re expected to just register for neutral kitchen appliances and home essentials on your registry, but I’m not a neutral type of gal,” she admits. “I wish I had registered for more colorful oven mitts that I wouldn’t necessarily ever buy myself.”
Baggu
$70 at Backcountry$70 at Baggu.com$70 at Urban Outfitters
Marissa Hilder of Queensland, Australia wishes she registered for more vacation-friendly items, like this roll-up picnic blanket that comes in several fun prints. Bring it along on a romantic getaway to the beach with your beau or use it as a picnic blanket on a park date with your pets.
Lettuce Grow
$749 at Amazon$749 at Lettucegrow.com
Leaning into your “plant mom” era? This indoor- and outdoor-friendly hydroponic stand lets you grow your very own fresh fruits and vegetables at home, perfect for those looking to eat a little healthier, cut back on grocery costs, or reduce food waste. The self-watering, self-fertilizing system is ideal for all harvesters, novices included. Plus, it just looks like a piece of art, are we right?
Williams Sonoma
$100 at Amazon$100 at Best Buy$100 at Williams-Sonoma
A toaster is a classic when it comes to wedding registries, but for Reals, this one from Breville redefines the category. Why? Aside from the standard “bagel” and “frozen” features, Reals loves the “a bit more” feature that allows for complete control over toasting. It also has long slots big enough for sourdough — perfect for serving up for Sunday brunch with the in-laws.
Walmart
$100 at Amazon$100 at Bloomingdales$100 at Zwilling.com
Whether you and your new spouse are meal prep aficionados or you like to cook extra to ensure leftovers, Reals says this storage bundle from Zwilling is a useful way to minimize food waste and keep things organized. Unlike otherfood storage systems, this relies on a vacuum for sealing up bags and containers, and keeps food up to five times fresher, per the brand.
Estelle Colored Glass
$185 at AnthropologieBuy on Bloomingdales$185 at West Elm
“When I registered, I mostly selected items that would have a lot of utility for my home, but I wish I had selected more items that bring joy, like this happy and colorful Estelle stemware set,” says Carly of Winston Salem, North Carolina. The six-piece set will add a little fun to at-home date nights and is sure to be a conversation starter at your next dinner party. It also comes in afall-friendly assortment.
Bloomingdale’s
$131 at Nordstrom$104 at Walmart$131 at Aesop.com
If you view your wedding registry as a shoppable wishlist of luxe items you’d never buy yourself, then this hand and soap lotion set may be a welcomed addition.
Aside from smelling good (think herbaceous rosemary and citrusy mandarin), it instantly elevates the home, saysKelsey Minaof Jersey City, New Jersey. “Now that we’re entertaining as newlyweds, these are the things I think of!” she says.
Framebridge
$75 at Framebridge.com
It’s exciting getting your wedding photos months down the line, but knowing you already have a frame to put them in takes out any guesswork. Both Samantha Stinson of Dallas, Texas, who has been married for nearly three years, and Mina say they wish they had put Framebridge on their registries for putting their favorite memories out on display.
Consider adding a specific frame that matches your home (ora gift card) to your registry — you’ll appreciate being able to swiftly relive your big day once those photos come in.
Cozy Earth
$389 at Amazon$339 at Anthropologie$339 at Cozy Earth
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For something that gets used every day, registering for a quality sheet set like this one from Cozy Earth, which Kitts owns and loves, makes things a lot more homey.
“Getting married is the perfect time to retire those cheap, pilled sheets that are probably from college,” she says. “I love these Cozy Earth bamboo sheets because they’re soft and temperature-regulating — perfect for those with varying sleep styles.”
Amazon
$400 at Amazon$450 at Kohls.com$450 at Macy’s
Generally speaking, there’s always that one person (a parent, relative, or friend) who’s willing to splurge on that big-ticket item for your wedding, so why not make it worth their money registering for a multi-functional item you know you’ll get use out of?
“If there’s one thing I regret not registering for, it’s this coveted stand mixer from KitchenAid. There are so many beautiful colors to choose from, including limited-edition hues, that I know it would look gorgeous on my kitchen countertops,” says Kitts.
Not a baker? This do-it-all workhorse has a plethora of attachments you can purchase, frompasta makersto food grinders, to up your game in your new kitchen.
Le Creuset
$559 at Amazon$820$575 at Lecreuset.com$575 at Macy’s
Revered for its quality, durability, and longevity, Le Creuset is a household name that oozes luxury. This set comes with aDutch oven, saucepan, and skillet, all of which are oven-safe.
“I’m sure we all could use some more Le Creuset in our lives,” says former bride Irina Gorovaia of Brooklyn, New York. “This set is ‘one pot’ convenience — being able to go from stove to oven is just unmatched (and not something I would be down to spend so much money on myself).”
L.L. Bean
$250 at Amazon$250 at REI$250 at Yeti.com
“A cooler might seem like a random registry item, but you’ll appreciate having it when weekend road trips and summer gatherings roll around,” says Kitts.
This space-saving option from Yeti holds up to 33 cans and most wine bottles, and is perfect for travel adventures as a newly married couple. It’ll take up little real estate in the house, garage, or apartment — plus, it comes with a heavy-duty strap that makes it easy to tote no matter your destination.
Cutco
Buy on Amazon$188 at Cutco.com
“We bought a set of Cutco Knives with wedding money after the wedding and, wow, I’ll never go back!” says Lindsey Flynn of Birmingham, Alabama. What makes these knives so special are their supreme comfort, crack-resistant handles, and impressively sharp edges.
Take a tip from Flynn and register for individual knives (versus a set) to ensure it’ll actually get purchased. “Most people won’t spend $800 to $1,000 for a gift, but they could spend $50 to $75 on an individual knife,” says Flynn.
Gray Malin
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“I wish I’d registered for a nice piece of art,” says Samantha Stinson of Dallas, Texas, who has been married for nearly three years. “Starting an art collection as newlyweds can be hard, but having someone gift a piece of artwork or a framed photo can give you a jumpstart on your collection in a really special way.”
Macy’s
$70$61 at Bed Bath & Beyond$170$76 at Macy’s
“It’s so extra but I love Laguiole flatware,” says Reals. “It just makes me happy and I wish I registered for some.” This 20-piece set is durable enough for everyday use and entertaining alike, plus you can choose from blue, green, and ivory.
Wayfair
$115 at Wayfair
Large home pieces can be a tricky registry item, but if you know where you and your partner will live (and have a solid idea of how you’d like to decorate your space), a wall mirror can make outfitting your new home easier later on.
“I found this mirror shortly after we got married and ended up buying it myself,” says Mina. “It looks far more expensive than it is and really dressed up our living room. I love the antique feel.”
Crate & Barrel
$165 at Amazon$195 at Nordstrom$165 at Williams-Sonoma
Its sleek gooseneck spout ensures a slower pour (read: less risk of splatters), plus it just looks plain pretty. Ren also regrets not havingNinja Hot and Cold Brewed Systemon her registry list, a must foryour coffee stationif you each enjoy drinking different coffee temperatures.
$110 at Amazon$42 at Sur La Table$156 at Williams-Sonoma
Nugent wishes her registry had this high-quality, uniform set of glassware that can be used for water, cocktails, iced coffee, and more. A mainstay brand for both professional chefs and home cooks, Duralex’s tempered glass is nearly three times stronger than regular glass, great if you’re looking for a long-term shatter- and chip-resistant set that can grow with you.
Michelle Rostamianis a contributing writer for PEOPLE with over 10 years of experience in the home and wellness space. She has written for publications such as Byrdie, Real Simple, InStyle, Huffington Post, Allure, Better Homes & Gardens, and more. She’s also a former bride and enjoys guiding people with their home purchases.
Meet Our BridesKayla Kittsof Atlanta, Georgia, married for 8 years.Erika Realsof New York, New York, married for 7 months.Kelsey Minaof Jersey City, New Jersey, married for 5 months.Lindsey Flynn of Birmingham, Alabama, married for 5.5 years.Irina Gorovaia of Brooklyn, New York, married for 1 year.Alida Nugentof Brooklyn, New York, married for 5 years.Jessica Gautierof Clarksville, Tennessee, married for 15 years.Samantha Stinson of Dallas, Texas, married for 2.5 years.Carly H. of Winston Salem, North Carolina, married for 2 years.Marissa Hilder of Queensland, Australia, married for 8 years.Ren of Knoxville, Tennessee, married for 6 years.
Kayla Kittsof Atlanta, Georgia, married for 8 years.Erika Realsof New York, New York, married for 7 months.Kelsey Minaof Jersey City, New Jersey, married for 5 months.Lindsey Flynn of Birmingham, Alabama, married for 5.5 years.Irina Gorovaia of Brooklyn, New York, married for 1 year.Alida Nugentof Brooklyn, New York, married for 5 years.Jessica Gautierof Clarksville, Tennessee, married for 15 years.Samantha Stinson of Dallas, Texas, married for 2.5 years.Carly H. of Winston Salem, North Carolina, married for 2 years.Marissa Hilder of Queensland, Australia, married for 8 years.Ren of Knoxville, Tennessee, married for 6 years.
source: people.com