Tori Spelling Says She Hopes to 'Take the Hard Out' of Divorce from Dean McDermott: 'It's Evolving' (Exclusive)

Mar. 15, 2025

Tori Spellingis starting a fresh chapter afterfiling for divorcefromDean McDermott.

When asked about she navigating public opinion about the split, she responded, “The public has always had something to say about me since I was born. So now I get to tell my own story on my podcastmisSPELLING…so I’m very excited.”

Spelling promised she will be “telling my story, my version, my whole thing with anything” on the podcast, adding, “Whether it’s my books [or] my podcast, I keep it authentic and I always tell it from my side in my perspective and it’s my story.”

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That June date was the same day McDermottannouncedthat the couple had decided to go their separate ways in a statement that was later deleted from his Instagram.

“It’s with great sadness and a very very heavy heart that after 18 years together and 5 amazing children, that @torispelling and I have decided to go our separate ways, and start a new journey of our own,” he wrote at the time.

Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott.Rodin Eckenroth/Getty Images

The actress revealed to listeners that she held back from filing in an effort to “protect” McDermott from hurt, as well as their kids —Liam Aaron McDermott, 17,Stella Doreen, 15,Hattie Margaret, 12,Finn Davey, 11 andBeau Dean, 7. (Spelling asked for sole physical custody of their children and joint legal custody with McDermott’s visitation rights to be determined at a later date.)

“We always say, ‘Hey, it made it 18 years. It shouldn’t have made it 18 years,” Spelling said. “And I think he would say the same thing if he and I had a real heart-to-heart. It would have been over a lot sooner.”

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“It’s been pretty rocky for everyone, but Tori is finding her way,“a source told PEOPLEover the weekend.

Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott on August 7, 2019 in Los Angeles, California.Gregg DeGuire/FilmMagic

Both Spelling and McDermott have moved on in recent months. Spelling wasspotted kissing Ryan Cramer, the CEO of Santa Monica-based agency Neuron Syndicate Inc., while McDermott is seeing new girlfriendLily Calo.

source: people.com