Wladimir Klitschko and Hayden Panettiere in 2016.Photo: Sean Zanni/Patrick McMullan via Getty
Hayden Panettiere’s exWladimir Klitschkois back in the headlines after the actress revealed she didn’t know that her daughter,Kaya, would be moving to Ukraine with her father until it had already happened.
Panettiere, 33, made the admission on a new episode of Facebook Watch’sRed Table Talk, telling the hosts: “[Kaya] was almost 3 and it wasn’t fully my decision. In fact, I didn’t even know it was happening until she was already over there.”
The actress, who has been public about her battle with addiction, added that the plan was for her to work on herself before she saw Kaya.
“I thought she was going over to visit him like she always did,” the actress said. “[Kaya] would go back and forth from me in Nashville and Ukraine, and then once she was over there, it was immediately, ‘I want full custody of her,’ which was a shock to me.”
She continued: “It was very upsetting signing those papers to give him full custody. It was like the most heartbreaking thing I’ve ever, ever had to do in my life. In a country where her uncle [Vitali Klitschko] is the mayor [of Kyiv] and they are icons over there, it’s a country where it’s very male-dominated. There wasn’t a heck of a lot I could do.”
Here’s more about Kaya’s dad, 46-year-old Wladimir Klitschko, who is currently fighting in Ukraine amid the Russian invasion.
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Klitschko was born in 1976 in modern-day Kazakhstan, and began training to become a boxer at an early age. He and his older brother,Vitali, quickly became standouts in their amateur boxing bubble.
Shortly before starting his professional boxing career, Klitschko rose to prominence in the 1996 Summer Olympics when he won a gold medal for Ukraine in the super-heavyweight division.
During his professional career, which lasted until 2017, Klitschko twice reigned as the world heavyweight champion. Vitali also won world championships before turning to politics, now leading a political party in Ukraine and serving as mayor of its capital city, Kyiv.
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Panettiere and Klitschko — a 6-foot-6-inch Ukrainian boxer who was formerly the heavyweight champion of the world — met at a mutual friend’s party in 2008 before dating on and off for nine years.
The two announced their engagement in 2013 and had a daughter together, Kaya Evdokia Klitschko, in December 2014.
“He is just so over the moon,” Panettiere said of Klitschko at the time. “I’m lucky if I can get my hands on the kid. He’s like, ‘No, no, I got her.’ Which is exactly what I thought he would be like.”
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In August 2018, after Panettiere was photographed holding hands withBrian Hickersonat a Los Angeles restaurant, her mother confirmed that theHeroesactress had split from Klitschko in an interview withRadarOnline.
Panettiere continued to see her daughter regularly, though, traveling on vacations with Klitschko and their Kaya.
The couple appeared to be on good terms in recent months and years. In a 2021Instagram poston his birthday, Panettiere even called her ex a “wonderful man” and hasreposted his updatesfrom Ukraine more recently.
From left: Vitali Klitschko, mayor of Kyiv, Ukraine, and his brother, Wladimir Klitschko, walk in front of a destroyed apartment building amid the Russian invasion.ARIS MESSINIS/AFP via Getty Images
Klitschko has been a vocal activist for his home country for years, even visiting Ukraine with Panettiere to voice their support for protestors in November 2013.
Klitschko has beenfighting for his countryin the war against Russia sinceVladimir Putinbegan the invasion earlier this year. Klitschko’sbrother Vitalyhas been the mayor of the Ukrainian capital of Kyiv since 2014, and the two have been frequently pictured together throughout the war.
And while Klitschko has been fighting,Kaya is safe outside Ukraine, according to a comment Panettiere made on Instagram earlier this year.
Speaking to PEOPLE for a June 2022cover story,Panettiere spoke candidly about battling an addiction to opioids and alcohol along with a bout of postpartum depression.
“I never had the feeling that I wanted to harm my child, but I didn’t want to spend any time with her,” Panettiere recalled, adding that the addiction impacted her relationship with Klitschko, as well.
“He didn’t want to be around me,” she said. “I didn’t want to be around me. But with the opiates and alcohol I was doing anything to make me feel happy for a moment. Then I’d feel worse than I did before. I was in a cycle of self-destruction.”
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Panettiere also gave PEOPLE anupdate on her relationshipwith Kaya, saying that allowing her daughter to move to Ukraine with Klitschko was “the hardest thing I could do.”
She continued: “But the best thing for my daughter was to make sure she was okay, take care of myself and make sure I could be a good mom to her. And sometimes that means letting go.”
source: people.com