Yvonne Orji Teams with T.J. Maxx to Help Women Live Authentically – and Shares Her Own Self-Confidence Journey

Mar. 15, 2025

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Self confidence has always been a work-in-progress forYvonne Orji, and after learning to feel good in her own skin, she’s ready to share some tips with others.

The 38-year-old actress and comedian is teaming up with T.J. Maxx and the company’s Find Your Maxx program to empower women to be their authentic and unapologetic selves. As part of the partnership, Orji will also serve as a personal mentor to one woman whoenters onlinebetween Aug. 4 and Aug. 26.

For the initiative, theInsecurestar spoke to PEOPLE about dealing with bullying growing up, and the long road that ultimately let her to able to prioritize herself over others.

“All pandemic, that was the work that I was doing – getting to the part where I was most comfortable with me and with what I was doing and where I was going,” she tells PEOPLE. “Especially after something likeInsecureends, it’s that thing of like, ‘Okay, who am I without the show?’ and just asking myself these questions and going to therapy. So I was doing the work, making sure that I was the me that I wanted to be, the best version of myself.”

Orji continues, “I think with COVID, everybody was kind of forced to go inwards because we couldn’t go outwards,” she says. “So you were stuck withyou.”

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“I was bullied as a kid and I took to people pleasing, as a lot of us do,” she explains. “And it was always that thing of like, making sure other people were okay, trying to figure out how to be for others. And then it was like, well, how do I want to be for me?”

“I was really going through trying to figure out how to undo perfectionism,” she adds. “Because it’s so culturally ingrained in me as a Black woman, especially as a Nigerian woman. Everything has to be the best.”

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However, she admits that she didn’t start to change her perspective until she received advice from a close friend who told her, “Your goal is to be proud, not to be perfect.”

“Can you look at your work and be proud of it and not look for it to be perfect,” the actress explains. “That really helps me. And just talking nicely to yourself. A lot of times, I’ll just say I’m really proud of you. I self talk all the time.”

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Orji says that while she occasionally has some “fear and internal guilt” of not possibly being accepted while being her authentic self, the journey with self image, whether private or in the public eye, “is just essential.”

She adds that her career has also shaped her journey with self image because “as a comic, you are a storyteller but the best stories come from truths.” Orji notes that her latest HBO comedy special was the most vulnerable she’s been because she candidly discusses the process of discovering herself over the past two years.

“I think that liberty and that freedom to not present as perfect, because nobody is, I think is what allows the growth and evolution to not feel so jarring,” she says.

Orji calls it a blessing to be able to share her growth with others in real time while getting the reassurance from fans that she’s not the only one going through this journey, which is why the star wants to help other women “break down the barriers to self-prioritization” with theT.J. Maxx campaign.

“Nothing tastes better than freedom. It just feels so good to be your freest,” Orji says. “When you can just show up as the you you were always supposed to be, it is the sexiest thing. That freedom to just be able to show up as the best version of you, it’s sexy. It’s the best.”

source: people.com